He married
Blanche
Marie Pate,
who was said to have been his teacher. They were married Nov. 1,
1905. Their third, and last, child was
John
William Cox, Jr
.
The wedding announcement is given below as it appeared in
The
Sumter
Daily
Item (dated November 2, 1905, pg. 3 column 3):
"The mystics of "All Hallo'een" had just
subsided into
twilight
under the canopy of the Harvest Moon, when the culmination of a
surprise
romance was solmenized into marriage last evening at the
residence
of the bride's brother, Mr. J. Frank
Pate,
who the young couple had confided their secret best known to two.
Mr. J. William Cox, of Moultrie, Ga. and Miss Marie Blanche Pate were
united
into marriage by the Rev. Pierce Kilgo, of the First Methodist
church.
The bride was handsomely gowned in a dark green broadcloth tailor-made
suit. Miss Blanche is one of Sumter's most brilliant and
accomplished
young ladies. Not in society's gay hall's has she
sought
to shine but quite unostentatiously she has gone like the good
Samaritan
into homes of loneliness, her bright disposition left rays of
sunshine.
It is with much reluctance Sumter gives to Georgia this young daughter
of lovely personality who numbers her friends by her smiles.
Mr Cox is the grandson of the late Dr.
Kennedy of Ridgeway, of eminent fame. He is a young man of
fine
character and business qualities and is meeting with much success in
his
mercantile work. He is to be congratulated on winning so charming
a wife.
Mr. and Mrs Cox left immediately on their bridal tour
hence to their home in Georgia."
Apparently, they didn't live in Georgia for long,
since Walsh's
directory
for Sumter, SC (1905-06) shows them living at 111 Kendrick with John's
sister
Alma Irene Cox and his grandmother
Emma
L. (Watts) Kennedy. The Census of 1910 lists them back at the
home of Blanche (201 E. Liberty St. in Sumter, SC) that they shared
with
her two unmarried older sisters (
Luticia
and
Mattie Pate
).
John worked for most of his life at the O.L. Williams
Veneer Company as a
shop foreman in the coat hanger department. He was a Masonic
Lodge
member. Based on items that survive from his life, he apparently
was very interested in photography, radio and cabinet making.
The marriage announcement comments about
"Mr Cox is the grandson of
the late Dr. Kennedy of Ridgeway, of eminent fame" are
puzzling. His maternal grandfather was
Arthur Burgess Kennedy.
It is not known who wrote the
marriage
announcement;
reference to John's grandfather
Arthur
Burgess Kennedy as "Dr." Kennedy is puzzling, since census records
indicate that he was a farmer.
The census of 1900 shows John and his sister
Alma
living with their maternal grandmother,
Emma
L. (Watts) Kennedy
.
Walsh's phone directory (1905-06) shows him living with his sister
Alma
at 111 Kendrick. He is employed at the Sumter Telephone
Manufacturing
Co. Note that the census of 1930 indicates that he was "a veteran
of the
U.S. military or naval forces mobilized for any war or expedition",
with
"WW" indicated as the war or expedition; see his
World War I
registration card.
He is buried at
Sumter Cemetery
(Sumter, SC).